WHY PERSONAL ROOM AND SECRET SPOT IMPORTANT

See, whatever middle class or lower middle-class countries which are still developing slowly-slowly, privacy is not given priority maximally in those countries. Because they have never been given personal room in adequate quantity. Nor have they ever been taught to stay separate from others. The result of which is that many people have again started leading such a lifestyle.

And they again start giving such a life to their children. Without even noticing that now the society has changed. And all the situations have now changed from before. Even today, if people have personal rooms, they do not have privacy. And even if they have privacy, that privacy is for a limited time. 

If You Want to Grow Be Alone: –

But if we want full growth in life, we will have to be completely alone. And a human being cannot grow as much with someone as he grows alone. We should just have a learning mindset. Because if you do not have a learning mindset, then this loneliness will disturb you even more, otherwise you can learn so much in this solitude, there is no limit to it.

And the best thing about loneliness is that you again become closer to yourself. You again become aware of many limitations and qualities of yourself more than the world. And when you are alone, you start becoming capable of knowing people around you in a better way. Because when you are alone, you start keeping an eye on your one-two habits.

And now you mindfully let people enter your life, because you again do not want the same people to start disturbing you. But you must remember in such situations, that you must not tell anyone about your personal spot, personal room, personal home. Because they will again take advantage of your understanding. And then those who used to trouble you earlier by showing love, will again start troubling you.

Because people disturb others in many ways, some by showing their closeness and some by fighting daily.

Mindfully Choose Your Connections: –

Now it is up to you, with which people you have to improve your connection again. Because such a person, who feels that life is lived like this. It will again take many years to break this myth of that person. Abd such a person who has given up reading-writing on a daily basis in his life. How can you believe from such a person.

Now that person is 50 years old, his intelligence would also have increased. This is not the case at all. Now your teacher has also not taught anything new to his students. He only repeats the knowledge he has studied once. Whereas a real teacher’s knowledge gets updated every week.

So, when educated people can do such things without understanding. Then how can you expect anything from those who have never studied after their college life? Now till we do not understand, till then we keep respecting these so-called relatives. That if they are elders of the house then it will be alright to believe them. 

And then the new generation keeps getting worried because of these elders. The funny fact is that these people do not even believe that the things they say have no strength, nor do they have any logic. So, hence till you try and test everything, till then you should not believe the words of these old aged people. And only after doing all the research work, we do not believe what those old people say, because sometimes what they say is correct.

Intellectually Choose Your Words Before Speaking to Anyone and Learn From Your Past Closedone People: –

So, you are an educated person, so without closing your eyes you have to say the useless things going on in your mind as true, and not say what another person says as true. After thinking over all the pros and cons with your understanding. Then you have to agree with what the person in front of you says. Otherwise, you people should develop the habit of saying things clearly. Because if you step on anything without thinking about all these things. Then you can get worried and good things can also happen to you.

But you know the previous results of the things and because of them your life had become hell. Then you should absolutely not bring such people near you again. Even if thousands of new humans come to you with different faces. If a person who never learns to live alone in his life, that person can adjust to living with every single person.

And all the people you meet doing the same, you have to filter them out very comfortably. And you should distance yourself from people like them so that you can do your personal growth. On top of that if you are including these people in your private life, then you must be worried. So, if you have started enjoying the privacy of your personal room, then you should not disturb this thing.

No matter how much someone forces you to live together. Because a person who has learned to grow himself, if that person again includes such people in his life. Who disturb his privacy, then even if they support your work more than half by staying physically with you. Apart from food problems and living together. There are some mental problems too, which need to be pacified by being alone.

Conclusion: –

Nowadays mostly youth are afraid of being alone. Or else they feel that if there are more than one person in a room, there is some kind of entertainment or the other. Whatever type of entertainment everyone takes, not everyone likes that type of entertainment. Some people need at least 10-12 hours of separation in a day, which is a kind of staying completely away from people.

And some people use privacy as a form of entertainment. So, for many people, expanding their time with people, with family can be a kind of entertainment for them. And on the other hand, for many people, staying away from others for at least 10-12 days. Is a way of staying alone is entertainment for them.

For such people loneliness gets converted into the form of solitude. So, that’s why privacy is important, and everyone should have such a private room and a private place. Where you can go and separate yourself from the world for some time, for a few days. So, that you can recharge your mind again. And we also get some rest physically. 

So, in today’s fast-paced world, you should calm your mental problems. Then you will be able to solve your problems very comfortably. That is why everyone should have a private room and a personal remote location where no one known to you can disturb you. Like our family does, sometimes even caring too much disturbs people.

So, at times it becomes very important to keep yourself isolated in privacy. Only then we understand the value of care that is given by our family.