See; by keeping a personal cook for yourself, your mind gets some mental peace. Which in a way diverts your mind from eating to other places, to focus on other tasks. Because when you become more health conscious, then your attention gets diverted many times in a day. And this attention also gives you anxiety many times. Due to which your day gets disturbed.
Why You Care So Much About Your Health: –
See, when you have digestive issues because of eating outside food repeatedly. Due to which, if a person tries to eat anything, then it is natural for him to have doubts about eating it. Now such a person has removed all those things from his diet plan, which do not suit his digestive system. So, due to this reason, that person becomes health conscious.
How External Health Issue and Cook Change Your Whole Health Mindset: –
Now a person whose health is bad easily becomes health conscious. He guesses this from the fact that when he stays at home, home food does not harm him in any way. But when he eats outside his home, he automatically understands that eating outside is disturbing his digestive health. So, due to this he starts changing his diet.
And he wants that whether he is at home or outside or in any part of the world, he should follow his diet. Which suits his body and digestive system.
Now the cook will change your health mindset like this. Because when you have already tried cooking food, you have noticed which type of food suits your body. So, when you will hire a cook-to-cook food. Then you will yourself inform him what type of food he should cook.
How Healthy Food Make Your Mind Peaceful and Body Healthy: –
Now every generation learns something or the other in its life. And everyone makes their own belief system related to their health, which our family members have been following for the last 20-30 years of their life. Now their belief system is right for them, but the new generation does not know how to do hard work, in this digital era. How will the dieting of the old generation suit them?
So, according to the time every generation changes its dieting system, according to their lifestyle. That is why today in the same family you will find family members following different types of diets, from vegan to vegetarian, non-vegetarian, Pegan. Because everyone’s dieting gives everyone mental peace, which is helpful in their working job.
Now whatever kind of healthy food you want to eat, you can easily get that food made by your cook. Just like the normal rotis that you eat at home, you cannot do the upgrade you want in that at all in your home. But if you are living in the middle class of India, then you will not even be allowed to cook in your home or called for make the food of your choice. That is why you will have to have a rebel mindset, only then you can eat the healthy food of your choice at home.
Personal Cook at Your Family Home and Indian Society Marriage Issue: –
I have to say that your family members, brother and sister, at least I have seen her place in my surroundings, especially in lower- and middle-class families, you will not be allowed to keep your personal cook. Your family will say, why are you wasting money unnecessarily for getting food prepared. And all the housewives of these middle class and lower middle-class families, they neither know how to cook properly, nor keep the house clean. Here girls are sold like garbage, nor have they seen the world properly.
And when the children of these lower- and middle-class families want to grow themselves, then first of all these family members are the ones who stop them from doing things.
Now here, if you are a male and you want to keep a cook for yourself, so that your food problem is solved. If you live in a village or in a conservative society, they will not let you keep a personal cook for yourself. They will say, son, get married and the entire society, village will not let you keep one. So, in such situations you will have to stay separate from your family.
Here, personal growth does not mean anything to people. And people look at you wrongly and you have kept a cook of the opposite gender, and you live alone in your house. Then you should be ready to hear such bad comments. We have seen this happening in our family and our society, that a simple and gentle man has become infamous in his society.
And we have not heard from any outsider, though it is our family members and gentlemen and gentlewomen who have become infamous.
If You Want Cook, Get Ready for Bad Comments and Cook Caste Issues: –
If you have made up your mind to keep a cook, then ready to face both the good-bad comments of the society. Because now wherever you live in the world, you will definitely keep a cook. So, now either become liberal or else racist, and get food cooked for yourself by the people of your religion. Because if you live in such a society where people of other religion live and you belong to some other religion.
Then you may have to face some bad comments. Like the incidents that keep happening between people of Hindu-Muslim religion, you may also have to face all those things.
If you are living in India and you have kept any person of the same gender from another caste as a cook, then you must be ready to listen to the useless talks of the society. If you are in a tier-2/3 city, then people from your own family will trouble you. They will not let you live because your family becomes helpless due to the pressure of the society. And then you have to fight with your own family.
Now tell them to find a cook for me. They will say, get married, “where are you, to keep a cook, anyway you are getting married”. Here you are not even allowed to eat food or drink water with people of other castes. So, you will have to fight with people of your own community, for the people of other castes.
And such a person who does not believe in caste, starts preparing himself in advance to fight with his belief system. That is why such a person neither looks at the caste of the person before finding, for cook, friend or a partner. Nor does person look at his/her religion.
If Your Cook is From Other Religion and if Your Cook is a Female Gender: –
Now here if there is a cook belonging to another religion like Jainism, Buddhism, Sikhism, Christianity, then we easily include him in our life. But if you want to keep a person from Muslim religion as a cook. And you must understand that whenever the situation of the country will get bad due to terrorism.Then you must understand that you too will have to face some situation.
And you will have to protect your cook. So, after all this you will have to remain strong.
Now there are so many issues related to women happening in India. And in such a situation if you keep a female cook, then you should understand that you are playing with fire. If that female says anything against you, even if it is a lie. Then nobody can stop you from going to jail.
Yes, if you are powerful and you have so much power within you that you will not dare to face the allegations. And you will fight everything very comfortably. So, in this case I say that you should keep an old female, who is of your mother’s age, as your cook. If you are unable to find a male cook, then.
And in India you will find mostly female cooks in tier-2 tier-3 cities. In tier-1 cities you will find both male and female types of cooks.
Conclusion: –
Before deciding on a cook for yourself you will have to look at the gender, caste, religion. And accordingly, you should choose for yourself, whatever problems you will face in future regarding the cook. You will have to face all the problems accordingly. And when your cook cooks food, you should get the food cooked by him in front of you.
This will not create an environment for anyone else to steal in your house. Now if he takes things related to food, then there is no problem with that. Just he should not steal anything other than food. We will take care of everything else.