See, every country’s society has different social issues due to which the peace of that society gets disturbed. And in today’s era of modern social media, if there any problem in any society of the world. We all get to see its effect in the societies of other countries. If those social issues are of your own country or your own region, then things are different.
Now there are some common social issues which are seen in common form in that society. Like:- education, religion, family, home, food, marriage or etc.
If we want, we can resolve some issues immediately, but all these things are still limited to books. And even today tier 2- tier-3 exactly the same casteism as we see in the villages. Maybe this situation still exists in tier-1 cities as well, who knows.
Now even today there are other activities here like eating in the lower caste, this has been limited to a great extent. But now also when you give preference to the marriage constitution, you will get to see casteism in prominent form.
Like people of every caste want to get married within their own caste. They cannot even imagine that they get their children married in other caste first.
Create Your Personal Cast-Religion Free Community: –
And the environment here also such that, if any person opposes casteism in full form. Then that person also when thinks of marrying his children within their cast. First of all, he gives preference to the people of his own caste, leave aside the talks of people of other castes.
Therefore, those people who talk about opposing casteism, have to create such an environment around them. So, that when in future people want to get their children married, they have many options.
We talk about the fact that we oppose casteism, but our actions are just the opposite. So, that it becomes very difficult but not impossible to find such a partner. Who opposes casteism, even if he belongs to your caste.
Because before making a relationship with such a person, you will not look at his caste. If you do then you will look at his nature-behavior, due to which the humanity of that person will be checked.
Modern Youth Trying Their Best To Reduce Casteism By Their Personal Level:-
Now many people oppose casteism. But they do not have enough support of the society, they fight against people of their own caste. Because nowadays people of every caste, to show themselves superior. Have also started doing the same kind of work that people of upper caste do.
And it is also a right thing, the work which upper caste people feel ashamed to do. Which done by lower caste people in their own way. So, those in the upper caste especially those who belong to the modern children they want casteism should be abolished as soon as possible. They are very happy thinking that now the lower caste people have started trying for their rights themselves.
Its meaning is that, just like for thousands of years upper caste people kept lower caste people away from Indian scriptures. And today upper caste people have established their own monopoly. Similarly, now other lower caste people should also start doing monopoly. Only then people of all castes will appear equal in India, no matter how much upper caste people have to oppose.
Equality important in Society: –
That’s why when everyone becomes equal and from every caste a person emerges who gives preference to humanity in the society. And downplays other things which take away humanity, then only casteism can be reduced to some extent.
Even in the upper caste, if people want to marry, then marry such people who oppose the caste system and both of them together have taken some action. Only then can some people be filtered out in your family, relatives who oppose casteism.
It is an obvious thing that the person who opposes casteism understands on his own. That he will not at all work among such family and relatives, where casteism promoted in a wider form.
Partner Choose Beyond The Boundary of Cast: –
Now the children of today do not believe in casteism as much as their parents do. And in today’s time if you got married as per the wishes of your parents, then its ultimate meaning is that you have unknowingly promoted casteism.
Today the modern youth of tier-2-tier-3 cities do not have that much power to fight this society alone. Some of due to financial reasons and some people want that the respect their families getting in the society, should not lost in the name of opposing the casteism.
Now here you must be saying that, since you are opposing casteism, then you should marry anyone. No, it is not like that, apart from caste there are many things which we have to see. One is, what is the lifestyle of that person. What are the hobbies of that person, is the person in front of you addicted to anything like alcohol, smoking. And if he goes into deep then is the person in front of you vegan, vegetarian, non-vegetarian, all these things are also seen.
Mutual Understanding Important: –
Now if a person is vegan, how can he develop a relationship with a non-vegetarian person. Even if he takes it forward, he cannot share his emotions with that person.
And an intelligent person has so much to do, how can he keep himself confined within a caste. If he finds such a person who understands the mindset and behavior of the person up to a certain level. He does not find one within his caste, then he will have to keep his steps outside his caste.
Because caste does not matter to such a person, mental peace is very important for such a person. Whether that person is outside his caste or outside religion.
In such a situation, even if that person has to do InterCast, Inter-religion marriage, he does not have any fear of what others will say. Because he has seen a lot of things before, so his inner fear goes away very easily.
Conclusion: –
Marriage should be beyond the boundary of caste. If you get a partner of similar mindset in your caste, then you should marry within your caste. But if you do not get such a partner, then be ready to face the consequences of that thing. And when you give priority to mental peace. Then you will not bring anyone close to you who does not provide you mental peace.
If you marry within your caste, then try to filter out such people in your family-relatives who promote casteism. Because if you want to grow overall, you will have to think beyond casteism. Keeping away all such things which suppress humanity is best for humanity as well as for personal development.