See, you are a person living a private life, so you should try to get your cook to prepare two meals in one go. And you can spend the remaining hours in doing your personal work. And believe me, the food you prepare once will be kept comfortably for 14 hours. And you will not need to prepare anything else again in the evening.
If You Have Budget Than You Can Eat and Have a Cook for 2 Times a Day for Your Family: –
See, if you have become addicted to privacy, then you would not want any human being to spend more time with you. So, if you want to cook food for your family, then you can cook for them twice. Or if you are staying with your family, then you can arrange food for your family.
If You Love Privacy Then You Can Have a Cook for Only One Time: –
If you don’t stay at your home most of the time and you yourself are not sure that you will be able to return home on time in the evening. Means your work is such that you have to travel to multiple places in a day. You are not sure that you will be able to return home. So, in this condition, get so much food prepared for yourself that you are free till the next day.
If your budget works out, you can cook for both the times. Then if you wish, you can also get some luxury items made by your cook, which you can do while doing your work. But if you are living on rent in a single room house, then it becomes a little difficult for you to manage your privacy. So, you can do this thing like this, whenever you want to call your cook in the evening, you can call him.
And then apart from the daily normal food, you can also get some different luxury food made. Like: – dessert, halwa, idli, dosa, and other seasonal things which you can think of. All those foods can be made.
Evening-Morning Time You Can Make Whatever You Want to Eat: –
If you have enough budget, you can also afford evening food making. Then in such situations you waste your time in the evening or in the morning at the hotel. With the arrival of a cook at your home, you will never again waste your time in the streets to eat any street food. Because after the arrival of the cook, the time you used to waste outside on the streets will not be wasted anymore.
Now you can save that much time by getting that food made at your home through your cook. Till the time your cook prepares food for you, you can do some other productive work of yours. Like reading, writing or such types of work which give you mental peace. Overall, you will be able to give more time to yourself and to think about more things.
You do one thing, in the morning time, get the food prepared by your cook on daily basis prepared. At other times, in the evening time, get all those foods prepared by your cook which you can eat for many days. And such foods do not get spoiled for at least 1-2 weeks; these are the types of food.
If You’re a Vegan, then You Should have a Personal Cook: –
See, if you are vegan or have lactose intolerance issues, then you must at least keep a cook. I got information about veganism also when I searched on Youtube how I can replace milk in my diet. For this very reason I came to know on Youtube that veganism is also a kind of thing. So, my mindset became stronger that from now on I don’t take milk and all the milk related things in my diet.
I will remove milk from all of them. Due to which till now I used to make vegan-friendly food. But a lot of my time was consumed in making vegan-friendly food. Earlier, I used to live with my family and when I was unable to prepare vegan-friendly food, I was forced to eat the same non-vegan food. And on top of that, being a vegan, I also have to face digestive issues as well as respiratory issues due to lactose intolerance. So, in such situations you should have a cook.
How Guilt and Disappoint You as a Vegan, when you are not able to eat Right Healthy Food: –
It’s a long journey buddy, you don’t know from how far I am coming. And how much time it took me to keep my health better. It’s a 5-year long journey, from trying everything to changing myself to become healthy. In this 5-year journey, I managed my body a lot according to my own and tried to keep it healthy. And I also identified all those ways by which my body feels healthy.
But in this cooking affair, 7-8 hours of my day would pass comfortably, and I could not even prepare some food. Due to which, I used to have to eat some food or the other at grocery shop, street hotel, cafe. Because this is an old habit from childhood, you cannot handle all those things alone. Apart from eating, a person has a lot of other things in life like college life, corporate life, hobbies and etc.
Now how do I leave all these things due to my physical health problems. And you are not able to leave them, because these things are such things, without which you cannot imagine your life. Like I love travelling a lot, but due to the problem of my health issues, I cannot think, how I survive in these 5 years of journey.
Living This Guilt and Disappointment Life in the 5 years (whatever years) From the wrong food: –
Now we have spent all these years with this guilt and disappointment, which used to start with morning tea-coffee and end with dinner at night. So, now how will you be able to focus on such situations and on other places. When you have physical pain in your body, you will not be able to breathe properly. So how will you be able to concentrate yourself in such situations and on other places.
It so happened that you left your village to study in the city. You wanted to immerse yourself in books here, but you came here and got stuck in your body’s problems. And now if you have to go anywhere, you have to see whether you are taking healthy food to your place or not like school, college, office or any other place far from your home. So, your entire focus goes out in finding out this thing, when you see the person in front of you is enjoying his morning breakfast, lunch and dinner.
And it is within your capability to eat, but you do not like to eat outside because if you eat, your health will again get disturbed. When you are not able to enjoy the basic things of life, then how will you be able to spend your time well with your close ones. So, in such a situation, spending some money on a cook is a right decision.
How Cook Help you to going to your college: –
Now, instead of having a cook at home, if you are in your college life, then having a personal cook is very helpful for you and will give you a different level of peace. And if you are a researcher or a PhD student, then in such situations it becomes important for you to put every thought of your whole mind into your research. You should not at all pay attention to the fact that you have to cook food also. Yes, you can upgrade your food weekly, you can eat something different daily.
And you can also give advice to the cook as to how to make a particular recipe. Like how to make oil free food, how to make vegan friendly food. You can give instructions for all these things. You do not have to make them; you have to give your complete attention to your research work. But what do we do, we remain addicted to so many addictions in the world. By the time we get out of our other addicted things, hunger starts tormenting us. And then we get busy in cooking.
Life Without Cook and Home Life: –
Now when you are at home, there is no time to cook food. Or even if they are at home, they are not able to cook food on time. And even if they cook food, there is no fixed routine for it. It is said that there is food to be eaten at home, it is there but that too is at home only 1% of the time.
Rest all the people in the house are just living their lives, they are not growing in any way. And anyway, if you go somewhere outside to study and there also, the same condition is maintained as at your home. Then you will never grow, you will remain stuck at the same place. And you will keep thinking about why you are not able to move forward even after making so many changes in your life.
Your parents, your family members are not going to change at all. They feel that things will not go on the way they were before. Everything changes after a person dies. You cannot expect the same things from another person as you had before.
There was a time when there was no shortage of food in your house, you did not have to go out to any hotel to eat anything. Your family members fulfill all your food related needs. Now if that person is no longer living in your house or has gone out somewhere, then in such situations all the food related systems of your house will definitely get disturbed.
Life After Not Having Cook in Your Home: –
Now there was a member in your house who used to cook some food or the other daily. Like desert etc. Which you eat outside today in the street, hotel. Like: – Phulki, samosa, jalebi, pizza, idli, dosa, mithai, rasgulla, Punjabi food, north Indian food, Bihari foods. All kinds of food they used to cook in your house.
When it will not be cooked in your house for 10-12 years, then your life will definitely get disturbed. And whenever you will remember your past, then you will remember your present situation at home. When you will find out, there is no such arrangement of food in your house now, as it used to be earlier during the time of your family members. And the result of this was that one or the other relative used to stay in your house for 7-8 months of the year.
Due to which most of the tension that your family members used to have, did not happen. And most of the people did not know where they were. Because there used to be 15-20 people in the house, especially the relatives, leave aside the other people who come to your house to work. So, now this is the situation here, when they were your family members, apart from your house 10-15 other people also eat food, from simple food to luxury level food. Earlier you used to prepare food for 10-12 people in your house and now even 1 person is not able to eat properly. These changes are visible in your family home.
Life After Not Having Cook in Your Home Effect on Everyone Life: –
The first effect is that, when that cook will not be there in your house. With his absence, your house will become desolate. All the people who were connected to that person of yours, will stop coming to your house. The workers who are working at your place, they will stop coming to work.
Now the expectations they had from you at your house, will also slowly start to end. And people will come to your place only to stay for a few moments. This also starts happening at one time, people who earlier used to stay in your house for 6-6 months. Now do not stay in your house for more than 6 hours.
Not Having Cook in Home, Effect on Your Children: –
First of all, the habits of your children get disturbed. You think from your childhood days that why are you not able to create the same old environment again. As if you have seen a time of your childhood. And when you grow up, you get the answer to this thing and understand it.
It all depends on person to person, how he thinks. Whether he wants to take everyone along or wants his own personal life. And because of this, the order of the whole family gets disturbed. So, if you have to establish the same order again, then you will have to create the same environment in your house as that person.
Now we cannot bring that person back, but we can create an environment like his by keeping a cook. If you want, you can keep 2-3 cooks in your house. 1 for morning, 1 for afternoon, and 1 for evening. This will be fine for you as you will not be dependent on any one thing. Your family, relatives, workers, everyone will be happy.
Without Cook, Family Forget Their Food Distribution Legacy: –
When you realize that, there was a time when you were living a luxurious life, and you had no arrangement to live. But you had everything to eat that a house should have. Then you face a lot of difficulty in figuring out how to recreate the same rich food lifestyle again as a kid. And when you figure out this thing, then you go wherever you want.
Everywhere you take forward the legacy of your house. That is why I say, you should not forget your legacy and you should not forget which family you belong to. Yes, it is true that you have to take the good things of your family and try to eliminate the bad things of your family. Until you figure out this, you are troubled everywhere in life.
And you should not forget your legacy behind, because no matter how many people your family used to discriminate, it never sent them away empty stomach. Example: – If your family believed in casteism and did not eat or drink their food, nor did it allow them to enter your house. But when your family fed someone, they fed everyone in equal amounts. That is why every family supports some wrong things and some good things too.
So, now in such situations you have to take the positive things of your family forward to the new generation. And keep leaving behind the bad things like casteism. This is how you will be able to correct your society.
Addiction Role, Life Without Cook and Study Life: –
You should see whether the life you are living gives you mental peace or not along with physical health. Now I believe that if someone wants to remain tension free in life and save time, he must keep a cook. This will end many foods related problems. That is why I would like that whether you live in a hostel or somewhere else, you must keep a cook.
This way you will always live in a home like environment, and you will be able to give your full focus to your college life. Otherwise, you will keep troubling yourself till the salon. And your studies will also be disturbed.
Don’t Live with Those People, Those Who Don’t Afford a Single Cook Their Home: –
Now I don’t want all of you to stop going to your family, relatives, friends’ homes. You should understand where you will get more comfort. Don’t get emotional too much, keep your mental and physical comfort above everything. Even if someone is sad or feels bad. But here people sometimes start staying with such people due to family pressure.
And they disturb the peace of your body as well as mind. So, you should not stay with such people who don’t even have a cook in their home. Now, things are different for those families in which food of everyone’s choice is prepared for everyone. Such families are found in only 1% in the society.
That is why you have to live alone and have to hire a cook and pay him a monthly payment as well. But you cannot do this work at all in your close one’s house. Even if you give them money, then they should prepare the food for you on time. There is no trust in this thing also. That is why even if you have to live with your close ones, then you must take a personal room for yourself and have to hire a personal cook.
You do not have to depend on your loved ones, firstly you should give them money. And on top of that you may not even get food on time. In the process of making too much emotional connection.
How to Manage Cook while Travelling: –
If you are going for a short-term duration like 2-3 days or 1 week. Then you can make such foods through your cook which you can eat comfortably for 10-12 days. In this way your cook will also solve your food problems while travelling comfortably. That is why I am saying whether you want to stay at some relative’s place or at some friend’s place or at a known person’s place, you have to keep a personal room and personal cook for yourself.
Conclusion: –
Just as having a personal room gives you mental peace and makes you understand the value of privacy. Similarly, if you keep your own private cook along with your private room, you can make your life even better. And having a personal cook will ensure that you will never have to go out for your basic food needs. You will leave your house only when your monthly ration ends.
That is, your life will become such that no one will even know whether you live in your society, village or not except your cook. If your cook also likes privacy and you are capable enough to do so, you can give your cook a personal room in your home. So, who knows he may also come out of the house once a month to buy ration with you. Overall, any person who eats outside hotel food or orders tiffin should keep a personal cook for himself.